Joshua 4:20-24 “And those twelve stones, which they took out of Jordan, did Joshua pitch in Gilgal. 21 And he spake unto the children of Israel, saying, When your children shall ask their fathers in time to come, saying, What mean these stones? 22 Then ye shall let your children know, saying, Israel came over this Jordan on dry land. 23For the Lord your God dried up the waters of Jordan from before you, until ye were passed over, as the Lord your God did to the Red sea, which he dried up from before us, until we were gone over: 24 That all the people of the earth might know the hand of the Lord, that it is mighty: that ye might fear the Lord your God for ever.”
When I was younger and we traveled a lot, my mother would do a similar thing, except it wasn’t with rocks. She kept a notebook and wrote in it all the miracles that we saw happen. Years later, it was interesting to look back over the times that God had saved us from an accident, kept us out of a snowstorm, or provided money when finances were tight.
As time passed and life got busier, this tradition dropped. However, I have renewed it for myself personally. It is easy to focus on the things that I don’t get my way and the things that go wrong- while forgetting the many times that God actually provided little miracles and helped me. I have a special book that I now write in all my prayer requests or burdens weighing heavily on my heart. Once a prayer is answered with a “yes”, I put a checkmark beside of it. Prayers that are still in waiting remain on the list, and prayers that are answered with a “no” can receive an “x”. What I want to do for the “no” answers is to then write beside them the blessing that I can see from not getting a “yes”. Ones that I can’t figure out will receive a question mark, because I know that there is a reason whether or not I can see it right now. There can also be a separate category for hugs from Heaven- times when unexpected blessings are sent my way. Hopefully when I look back and reminisce (because I love looking back through my old journals and writings) I will see an even clearer picture of how great God actually is. Years later those question marks may make sense, and I will finally be able to write in the reason beside them. Some may remain a mystery to me on earth forever, but I can be okay with that because I will also see the times when God surprised me with special blessings and checkmarks.
This is not the only way that you can build monuments to remember special times and blessings. Frame a leaf from your walk in the woods when you poured your heart out to God and you felt Him wrap you in His arms. Write down on a bookmark the words of a song that was playing on your radio and spoke of hope when you felt like there was none left. Take a picture of the sunset that convinced you that there is Someone in control. Copy an inspiring quote to a magnet and stick it on the fridge. Write down each blessing, miracle, or “yes” answer on a popsicle stick and store it in a jar. When the jar is full, have a special date with God (volunteer at a soup kitchen, help with a food drive, donate to a charitable cause, buy a meal for someone who is struggling).
You don’t have to physically erect a bunch of rocks in your back yard to remember the blessings in your life, but I think it is important to find some kind of creative way to keep track of the good things, because if you are like me it is easier to see the glass as half empty rather than half full!